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Please stay tuned for the announcement of upcoming dates for our new Birth Better childbirth education workshops in 2027!

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Comprehensive birth preparation for the mind, body & soul for an empowering birth experience and beyond!

Prepare Your Body. Calm Your Mind. Birth Better. Did you know that approximately 1 in 3 Australian women describe their birth experience as traumatic?

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As a practising domiciliary care midwife, I regularly support families who have experienced difficult or distressing births. These experiences have strengthened my passion for helping expectant parents feel informed, empowered and physically and emotionally prepared for birth. I believe that positive birth preparation involves more than understanding the stages of labour. It's about preparing your mind, body and nervous system to work together throughout pregnancy, birth and beyond. Fear, stress and anxiety can influence how we experience labour, contributing to muscle tension and making it more difficult to relax and work with the natural rhythms of birth. Understanding the mind-body connection and learning practical techniques to support relaxation, confidence and emotional wellbeing can make a valuable difference to your birth experience.

 

Equally important is preparing your body for the physical demands of pregnancy and birth. Your posture, movement patterns, strength, mobility and the balance of your muscles and connective tissues can all influence how comfortable you feel during pregnancy and how efficiently your baby can navigate the spiralling birth path during labour.

 

How can Birth Better support you?

At Birth Better, I combine my experience as a midwife with the principles of the Body Ready Method® (BRM) to offer a holistic and individualised approach to birth preparation. The Body Ready Method® is a movement-based method that focuses on preparing your body for birth through functional strength, mobility, alignment, movement and nervous system awareness.

 

My services include:

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Birth Balancing Consultations incorporating Body Ready Method® assessments to explore your body's unique movement patterns, alignment, strength and mobility. Together, we'll develop a tailored program of practical movements and balancing activities designed to support comfort during pregnancy, optimise your body's ability to adapt during labour and prepare you for the physical demands of birth.

 

Birth Better workshops providing practical, interactive small group workshops designed to help you understand how your body works during labour and birth. You'll explore the relationship between your pelvis, muscles, movement and baby's position, while learning practical techniques, labour positions and partner-supported strategies to help you feel more prepared and confident. You will receive evidence-informed education that combines an understanding of normal birth physiology with practical tools for relaxation, breathing, movement, informed decision-making and working with your body's natural processes. My aim is to help you approach birth feeling knowledgeable, supported and empowered, whatever path your birth takes.

 

Your Birth. Your Body. Your Experience. Every pregnancy, every body and every birth is unique. My goal is not to promise a particular birth outcome, but to help you feel physically prepared, emotionally supported and confident in your ability to navigate your birth experience. Whether you're preparing for your first baby, hoping for a different experience following a previous birth, or simply wanting to feel more comfortable and confident throughout pregnancy, I'd love to support you on your journey. Ready to prepare your body and mind for birth? Book an individual Birth Balancing Consultation or join one of my Birth Better workshops today.

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Contact Melissa via phone/text: 0413 190 756

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Email: melissa@birthbetter.com.au

"I cannot recommend Melissa more highly. Late in pregnancy, my baby was identified to be in a breech position. Melissa undertook a detailed assessment and was incredibly understanding of my birthing goals....

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My story...

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Hello I'm Melissa Blackford, the founder of Birth Better! I have been a Registered Midwife since 2011 and remain a strong advocate for positive birth. I also have a Diploma of Prosthetics and Orthotics, so my passion for optimal positioning of babies to help them navigate the pelvis during labour and birth stems from this unique perspective of maternal biomechanics.

 

In recent years, I’ve become disillusioned by the medicalisation and fragmentation of our maternity care system. I am also saddened by the alarming rise in physical and emotional birth trauma reported by Australian families. On a global scale, there is concern for the prevalence of morbidity and mortality among birthing people and babies associated with the rising caesarean section rate and overuse of obstetric interventions. These disturbing statistics have become the ultimate catalyst to create Birth Better and join the birth revolution to assist families to reclaim birth as a rite of passage. 

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I feel incredibly fortunate that my own birth stories were transformative moments in my life, however my labours were far from straightforward! I was stuck at 6cm of cervical dilation for around 20 hours with our son before enduring another 4 hours of intense contractions with syntocinon (a synthetic labour hormone) to force him out. Twenty one months later, our daughter entered the world bottom first...although there is certainly nothing backwards about her now! I was fortunate to have the opportunity for a vaginal breech birth following 4 failed (and rather excruciating) external cephalic version (ECV) attempts, because of the support of an obstetric colleague.  

 

I live with my incredible husband, children and our lovable chocolate labrador, on a native bush block in North Warrandyte and train for ultra trail marathons in my spare time!

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I wish to share the birth preparation insights I have gathered since attending a workshop with Gail Tully (the founder of Spinning Babies®); becoming a Spinning Babies® Aware Practitioner; completing my HypnoBirthing® Educator course and most recently being certified as a Body Ready Method® Pro and Body Ready Birth workshop teacher, to support families to have the best birth outcome possible. 

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“Melissa supported us when we found out at 34 weeks our bubba was breech. Her clear understanding and expertise in the Spinning Babies methods and midwifery are a great combination. She was informative, caring and kind....

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Birth Balancing Consultations

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Every pregnant body is unique, and so is every birth. The way your body moves, adapts and creates space during pregnancy and labour can influence your comfort and how your baby navigates the pelvis during birth.

The muscles, ligaments and fascia (connective tissues) surrounding your pelvis and uterus work together to support your growing baby. Tension, restricted mobility or imbalances within these soft tissues may contribute to pregnancy-related discomfort and influence the way your pelvis moves and adapts throughout labour. Birth Balancing Consultations are designed to help you understand your body's unique biomechanics and prepare for birth through targeted movement, balance and alignment. Rather than taking a one-size-fits-all approach, your consultation focuses on identifying areas of tension, restriction or imbalance and developing an individualised program of activities to support greater comfort, mobility and functional pelvic space in preparation for labour and birth.

 

What to expect during your consultation:

Your Birth Balancing Consultation begins with a detailed discussion of your pregnancy, previous birth experiences (if applicable), any physical discomforts and your goals for your upcoming birth. As a Body Ready Method® Certified Pro and Spinning Babies® Aware Practitioner, I combine specialised knowledge of pregnancy biomechanics, pelvic alignment and physiological birth to provide a comprehensive, personalised assessment and birth preparation program.

Your consultation includes:

  • Individualised Body Ready Method® assessment: an evaluation of your posture, alignment, mobility and movement patterns to identify areas of tension, restriction or imbalance that may influence your comfort and movement during pregnancy and labour.

  • Personalised balancing and strengthening activities: guided instruction in targeted Body Ready Method® and Spinning Babies® activities selected specifically for your body's needs. These gentle, practical techniques aim to improve mobility, support muscular balance and encourage greater freedom of movement within the pelvis.

  • Optimising pelvic space and fetal positioning: an exploration of how your individual biomechanics may influence the space available for your baby, with activities designed to encourage balance and mobility that may support your baby's positioning.

  • Individualised labour positions and movements: a tailored selection of labour and birth positions, movements and techniques based on your assessment findings. These strategies aim to support pelvic adaptability, encourage your baby's descent and rotation, and provide practical options for navigating labour.

  • Birth partner involvement: where possible, your birth partner is encouraged to participate, learning practical ways to support your comfort, movement and positioning throughout labour.

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You will leave your consultation with a clear understanding of your body's individual needs and a practical program of activities to continue at home, along with personalised strategies to use during labour. My approach is gentle, evidence-informed and focused on working with your body's natural physiology, rather than attempting to force your baby into a particular position.

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Who may benefit from a Birth Balancing consultation?

Birth Balancing can be valuable for anyone wishing to prepare their body for labour, but may be particularly beneficial if:

  • Your baby is currently in a posterior, breech or transverse position, and you would like to explore gentle, supportive positioning and movement strategies alongside your maternity care.

  • You are preparing for an External Cephalic Version (ECV) and would like guidance on appropriate balancing and mobility activities.

  • You are experiencing pelvic girdle discomfort, lower back pain, sciatica or feelings of pelvic instability during pregnancy.

  • Your baby has an unstable lie in late pregnancy.

  • Your baby's head remains high or unengaged towards the end of pregnancy.

  • You are preparing for an induction of labour and would like to explore positions and movements that may support your labour.

  • You have experienced a previous challenging or traumatic birth, including an instrumental birth, and would like a more individualised approach to physical birth preparation.

  • You are planning a VBAC (vaginal birth after caesarean) and would like to explore ways to support pelvic mobility, comfort and movement during labour.

  • You simply wish to feel more physically prepared, comfortable and confident heading into your birth.

Please note: Birth Balancing complements, rather than replaces, your regular maternity care. Where there are concerns about your baby's position or pregnancy-related pain, appropriate assessment and management by your maternity care provider remain essential.

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Location: Birth Balancing consultations are conducted in the comfort and privacy of your own home.

 

Duration: approximately 2 hours

 

Investment: $245, inclusive of travel within 50 km of North Warrandyte. An additional travel fee applies for locations beyond this distance.

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To book your personalised Birth Balancing consultation, please contact Melissa on 0413 190 756.

 

Prior to your appointment, you will receive a confidential intake form to help me understand your pregnancy history, individual needs and birth preparation goals.

Payment can be made via electronic bank transfer (an invoice will be provided following your appointment) or cash.

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"I have been literally telling anyone and everyone that seeing Mel has been life changing! I had severe pelvic girdle pain (PGP) and instability since the middle of second trimester. I was uncomfortable and miserable....

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Birth Better Workshops

During these powerful new childbirth education workshops you and your birth companion can look forward to learning about:

  • The labour process & birth physiology.

  • How fear impacts the birth process.

  • Fear release ideas.

  • Functional physiological pain management.

  • Endorphins & the labour flow state.

  • Birth preferences/birth mapping guidance.

  • Special circumstances.

  • Labour support & comfort tips.

  • Advocacy skills.

  • Breathing techniques for the different stages of labour.

  • Physiological solutions for the pelvic inlet, mid pelvis & outlet to help labour progress efficiently and mitigate the risk of emergency obstetric interventions.

  • Preparation for your “4th trimester” & beyond!

Gain confidence going into birth with the wisdom of what to do, when and why for both you & your birth companion!​​

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Duration: 4.5-5 hours (Sunday afternoon - upcoming dates for 2027 to be confirmed).

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Venue: North Warrandyte

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Investment: $400

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Birth Balancing Consultations

  • Individualised Body Ready Method® assessment.

  • Targeted balancing and strengthening program to optimise space and fetal positioning; improve mobility; support muscular balance and encourage greater freedom of movement within the pelvis.

  • Personalised movements, positions and techniques to promote labour progress based on individual alignment, posture, mobility and movement pattern findings.

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Duration: approximately 2 hours

 

Venue: conducted in the comfort of your own home.

 

Investment: $245 (additional travel fee incurred if greater than 50km from North Warrandyte).

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HypnoBirthing Refresher Course

  • A HypnoBirthing refresher program is available if you have previously completed a HypnoBirthing® International (Marie Mongan Method) course and would like to refresh or refine your HypnoBirthing knowledge & skills.

  • Individualised support to "repack your labour toolkit".

 

Duration: 2 ½ hours

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​Venue: conducted in the comfort of your own home.

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Investment: $225

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Call Melissa

I can be contacted on 0413 190 756 for an obligation free chat about the Birth Better services or simply send me a text message.  As a practising midwife and mother of two active children (plus a demanding fur child!), I may not always be able to answer my phone, so please leave a message and I will endeavour to return your call as soon as possible.

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Email: melissa@birthbetter.com.au​

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In the spirit of reconciliation, Birth Better acknowledges the Wurundjeri Woi-wurrung people as the Traditional Custodians of the country on which our services are provided and their connections to land, sea and community. We pay our respect to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples today.

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